Chat. Choose.Connect.
Meet singles in your city through hosted virtual dating events.
Live on video chat — match privately after in the app.
Hosted live via video chat
Match only if it's mutual
Your selections stay private
7-day chat after mutual match
Upcoming Events
Join our virtual dating events and meet compatible singles in your city
New Events Coming Soon
New virtual dating events are being scheduled now. Please check back soon — we're curating the next round of hosted video events for singles in cities near you.
How It Works
Five simple steps to meaningful connections
Reserve Your Spot
Choose your event and reserve your free spot to secure your place.
Join the Event
Log in at event time and join the live virtual event via video chat.
Meet Others
Meet other singles through relaxed, hosted guided conversations.
Choose
After the event, privately vote on who you'd like to know better.
Connect
If the interest is mutual, unlock a private 7-day conversation.
What Happens After
The event is just the beginning — here's how connections come to life
Vote
After the event, review attendees and choose who you'd like to connect with — privately.
Match
If you both liked each other, we create a private match. No swiping — just mutual interest.
7-Day Chat
Mutual matches get 7 days of private messaging to continue the conversation.
Keep Connecting
After your chat window, your matchmaker can help you explore curated introductions for ongoing connections.
Looking for Something More Personal?
The Millennial Dater also offers professionally curated matchmaking for singles who prefer a more guided approach. Instead of swiping through hundreds of profiles, a human matchmaker personally reviews potential introductions and guides the process.
Personally Curated
Potential introductions are reviewed by a human matchmaker.
Mutual Interest First
Both people independently choose whether they want to move forward.
Guided Introductions
When interest is mutual, your matchmaker privately meets with each person and coordinates the next step.
A separate, matchmaker-led experience — no swiping, no public browsing.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need an account?
You can browse events without an account, but you'll need to create a free profile to reserve your spot. This ensures quality matches and lets you participate in post-event voting.
Where does the event happen?
All events are hosted virtually via video chat. After you register, you'll receive an email with your unique video chat link and meeting details. The link also appears in your event dashboard before the event begins.
How much does it cost?
All events are currently free to join! Simply reserve your spot and we'll send you the video chat link. No payment required.
Is this speed dating?
Not exactly! Our events are hosted and guided with structured conversations, but the matching happens privately after the event. You review attendees at your own pace and choose who you'd like to connect with.
What happens after the event?
After the event, you'll vote Like or Pass on each attendee. If it's mutual, we create a private chat for you both — free for 7 days. After that, your matchmaker can help you explore curated introductions for ongoing connections.
What happens when the 7-day chat ends?
Your conversation becomes read-only — you can review past messages anytime, but new messages can't be sent. If you'd like to continue exploring the connection or discuss next steps, you can reach out to your matchmaker through the support page in the app.
Ready to Meet Someone?
Reserve your seat at our next virtual dating event and start meaningful connections
